Dating Diaries = THE FIT GUY AND CURVY GIRL SAGA

“TO MY CURVY LADIES WHO LOVE FIT MEN; I AM HERE TO TELL YOU…IF THAT FIT OR MUSCULAR MAN APPROACHES YOU, EMBRACE IT CAUSE HE AINT PLAYING. EVEN IF YOU’RE NOT A FIT OR CURVY WOMAN, THIS ARTICLE IS STILL FOR YOU CAUSE GUESS WHAT, MEN WANT WHAT THEY WANT HONEY”. Curvedancer

As you all know, I am a curvy woman who is often exposed to the fitness industry because I am a dance instructor and I teach at local gyms. Therefore, 90% of the time I am exposed to fit and muscular men, who over the years, became my preference. As you get older, you get to know exactly what you want. I unapologetically love fit men. At first, I thought, mmmm this is kind of shallow and I should date guys who are more my “speed”. Ironically, fit guys ARE MY SPEED. I mean, I am a dancer and I train at the gym on a regular basis (pre-quarantine of course!) so technically that makes me a fit girl. I also love being healthy and I will get more into that in a later blog. But a fit man is somebody I have things in common with, so why should I settle for less because of my size?

The real tea was…. Will these men even like me? Fortunately for us, I’ve done some research on this topic, both online and real-life. The research I’ve done actually brought into being that some, if not most fit and muscular men don’t mind curves. As a matter of fact, they prefer them. So get that confidence up sister!!! Because confidence is key here honey! Every man loves confidence, so it’s no use you’re a curvy girl with no confidence. The first thing a fit guy would say is, “yeah dude, I’d totally date a big confident girl”. They don’t want you to be intimidated by their six-pack or stamina, they just want you to be sexy as you are, cause duh, they already like you for you so be just that. BE YOU! Embrace yourself and love yourself and never turn away a man if his too fit or muscular, cause as I said before, that man ain’t playing, he loves you. Having muscles won’t change a man’s preference and men want whoever they want to want, and you will know it.

Remember, fit men are the biggest babies, so they just want to be cuddled and babied. Cuddle that man sister! Not only that, but they also love women who can eat. And NO! I do not mean overeating on sweet things and other junk foods. They generally like women who are not shy to eat. Fit men are the men who eat the most because they’re athletes. I’ve dated an athlete who not only ate his own food off his plate but mine as well and I didn’t mind. I also enjoyed working out with him on occasion because he challenged me! See, my future-fit husband and I are going to have so much in common because we’re swole mates. I love to cook for somebody who loves to eat, I love to workout with somebody who is going to challenge me.

So next the time somebody says, “Oh my God, how did that girl get that guy,” You say, HE WANTED ME SO HERE I AM HONEY! And be unapologetically happy with your fit man, you beautiful plus-sized princess! He is not out of your league, he loves you as you are and wants to be with you.

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Curve Dancer